I’ll be honest, I didn’t like Ginny and Georgia. I found myself eye-rolling and cringing at the dialogue and characters more than actually caring about the fast-paced chaos of the show. Season 3 of the show dropped recently, and I decided to give it another try, hitting “play” more out of obligation then anticipation. But something in this season shifted in one character’s arc that made me watch the whole thing.
There was a raw vulnerability across many characters that had seemed somewhat fake in the other seasons, just grabs at trying to be more diverse in perspectives and struggles. One character in particular, Max, in the earlier seasons of Ginny and Georgia could be a lot. Her energy was often loud and relentless, often self-centred to the point where she steam-rolled over everyone else, almost hijacking every scene with unnecessary dialogue. Whether it was just her performative reactions, or her tendency to make everything about herself, Max was hard to watch. From a viewer’s perspective, it felt like Max was a typical “drama queen” character in most American teen shows.
But Season 3 came with a surprising emotional anchor in Max. What made her character arc this season so compelling was that it didn’t erase any of that. Instead, it reframed. We started to see the loneliness underneath the chaos, the fear of abandonment, the need for validation, and the way she masks vulnerability with theatrics. Suddenly, those unbearable traits became symptoms of something bigger. Her constant need to insert herself into conversations, her exaggerated responses, her clinging to others, all of it was grounded in a desperate desire to feel connected and secure.
For the first time, the show gave her space to unravel, and to be vulnerable without the mask of performative cheer. Max is constantly denied the space to feel, and has nowhere safe to put those feelings. Her attempts to open up and express her feelings are dismissed as “drama”. This sets her into further emotional isolation, and every time she initiates emotional vulnerability, she gets shut down. Max’s big feelings are a core part of who she is, but instead of being embraced, they’re used against her. She’s labeled as “too much” when really, she’s one of the only characters trying to communicate openly. Across the first two seasons, the show subtly framed Max as a burden, and that’s what makes her arc so heartbreaking, is that the audience itself feels guilty for punishing her for being herself. Constantly being called “too much” or more infuriatingly, “dramatic”, Max is written off as being someone who “feels too much”. The label “dramatic” becomes a shorthand for invalidating her, used by her friends, her family, and even the narrative itself to suggest that her feelings are excessive or inconvenient. But Max isn’t being “dramatic” for attention, she’s pleading to be understood. She’s constantly punished for showing how deeply she cares for her friends and family by being met with silence, distance, and rejection.
But thats where the show pulls a quiet reversal, forcing the audience to sit with the discomfort of having judged her too harshly. That’s the genius of this arc, it doesn’t just redeem Max, it holds a mirror up to how we treat people who are emotionally open in a world that rewards emotional restraint. This season, Ginny and Georgia encapsulated the growing emotional disconnect in teen culture. Expressing hurt, asking for reassurance, or even just naming a feeling can be met with accusations of being “too much”. Instead of fostering emotional intelligence, many friend groups default to avoidance or passive-aggressive silence when someone decides to open up, often dismissed as attention-seeking or “starting drama”. Teens are still learning how to regulate emotions, communicate needs and navigate relationships, but instead of being supported in growth, they’re often shamed for it, teaching them to bottle things up. The result is a generation thats more connected then ever digitally, but increasingly isolated emotionally. And those who feel “too deeply”, like Max in Ginny and Georgia, are left wondering if there’s something wrong with wanting to be understood.